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Little Edits Atelier's avatar

So hopeful!!! It doesn’t matter if you’ve checked all the boxes if you feel like you’ve lost yourself ! Cheering for you

sofia falck's avatar

thank you so very much. that’s beautifully put. your relationship to yourself is probably the most important thing at the end of the day. cheering for you as well! thank you for being here 💛

sophie alice ✨'s avatar

I can relate to this so much!! I'm sitting here, at the safe job, reading this (shh don't tell anyone)...I'm mustering the courage to allow myself to dream what the alternative might look like and your words made me feel so seen. Thank you so much for sharing, I feel so much less alone ❤️

sofia falck's avatar

Ahh, this gave me chills, Sophie. I can't thank you enough for your words. Please dream. You are capable of anything you put your mind to. I hope you know that. 💌 We're in this together. <3 Rooting for you!

EJ Kemp's avatar

Don't stop. You're already well on your way to your dreams. Good for youbto pivoting before you were settled into an office you'd already outgrown! Listening to intuition is a superpower ♡ i pick a word of the year every year and it is always a hard one. The first was "resilient" when I was being broken by my job and the world. I have also had grace, balance, and commitment (I got married that year) and right now I am without my woty, oddly enough! However my therapist suggested "acceptance"... my facial reaction to the word (🤢) the pit in my stomach (😰) and your post about growth (🌱) all feel like my intuition saying I have to do it. Thanks ♡ your writing is beautiful and voice is strong.

sofia falck's avatar

this is everything, thank you so very much EJ. <3 that's so amazing! it's so cool how woty it's a universal thing. i wasn't prepared for that, but pleasantly surprised! that's incredible, how the words you chose impacted your life in such profound ways. thank you for sharing. <3 i'm so glad this piece resonated with you.

thank you again for being here and for taking the time to write this. it really means a lot to me. ♡

EJ Kemp's avatar

You're welcome 😊 I am so glad we have crossed paths here.

sofia falck's avatar

me too! you’re one of the greats. 💛

Gathering the Pieces of Me's avatar

So amazing finding someone else who has had the privilege of having the impact of a chosen word, help refocus their journey. 🥰🙌🏻

sofia falck's avatar

aw, i feel the same! i love how it's a universal experience, that's incredibly cool. thank you for being here! 🤍✮⋆˙

lumisoul's avatar

Such a good read ✨💛

sofia falck's avatar

thank you 💛 i’m so glad it reached with you!

Aliyah Vasquez's avatar

What a beautiful read. Thank you for sharing! I’m rooting for you. 💕

sofia falck's avatar

wow thank you 🥹💛 that’s so sweet of you! rooting for you as well!!

La Alemana's Diary's avatar

Writing seems to be your porpuse and it’s amazing that you listened to that little voice. Keep it up! Dreams are there to become reality ✨

sofia falck's avatar

this gave me chills. thank you for saying that here, it means more than you know! i will 💛 manifesting great things for you!

Deborah Beach's avatar

Sofia, this is so incredibly beautiful. I feel so inspired by every single word you wrote. I could feel so strongly your progression from being so afraid, the painful growth period in between, to finally landing in that space of feeling inspired and adventurous. Thank you for sharing this. I needed it. I am rooting for you!! 💖💖

sofia falck's avatar

oh wow. I can’t tell you how happy you just made me, Deborah. It means so much to hear how it made you feel, and i’m so touched by the empathy that is so apparent in your words. thank YOU for being here and for being so kind 🩷 keep being you. rooting for you!!!

Deborah Beach's avatar

Thank you friend!!🥹 We’re in this together, woooo!

Krux of Khushi 🌷☕📖's avatar

Not a single disappointing read is what you have served me gurl , i love how i was nodding on each line like “oh yes”💗💗

sofia falck's avatar

girlieee stop this is the kindest compliment. that means the world to me!! 💌 will cherish this for a long time.

Productivity With Care's avatar

Love it! My word is 'independence' specifically from the corporate world. I do enjoy working corporate, but I think I can build Productivity With Care into something cool. My vision is a lifestyle brand with merch, meetups, coaching, etc. It's probably going to take time and I will likely need to work longer in corporate to get there, but I think I can do it!

sofia falck's avatar

thank you for sharing! <3 ahh, i love that choice. i also think that’s a great vision, and one you could definitely achieve! keep following your passion. rooting for you! 💫

Angeliki's avatar

A great read!

sofia falck's avatar

Thank you, Angeliki! So glad it resonated with you! <3

Angeliki's avatar

This! Can we all deprogram from what we were told adulthood "should" look like?!

sofia falck's avatar

period! most of what we were taught about adulthood was never meant to be questioned. i hope this piece helps someone realise they can. <3

Lara's avatar
Apr 6Edited

This was beautiful 💖 It's genuinely rare for me to read something that makes me stop in my tracks like this made me do. So much of it resonated, reminding me of a similar night about a year ago where I too decided to change everything. Truly getting chills reading you getting back to writing like that <3 I wish the best for you, hope I get to read your book one day 🫶

sofia falck's avatar

ah woww. thank you so much for writing this here, I can’t express how much your words means to me.🩷

it’s so cool to hear that so many of us have similar experiences, it makes me feel like i’m never alone in any problem :’)

wishing you nothing but the best! aw, i hope i get to read yours!! thank you for making my day 🥹🩷

Lara's avatar

🫶🫶🫶

James Winter's avatar

Glad you found your true voice, and at such a young age too! I was in my early forties when i had your realizations. I was in my fifties before i broke out of the "life trap." Keep it up, keep smiling and being you.

sofia falck's avatar

Thank you, James! I’m curious, what made you break out of the “trap”? I’m glad you found your own way. You too! Thank you for being here. 💫

James Winter's avatar

It was a shattered 5th lumbar. I worked my ass off for ever single place I worked. Broke bones made myself sick, came to work anyway. Worked 90 hour weeks when it was called for. Just so I could be shoved aside? Laid off because I broke my back? No, I realized then there isn't a job out there worth killing yourself for. The good 'ol days when your loyalty to the job and their loyalty to you as a good employee were long gone. I should have seen it coming. I was passed up for promotions because I was the wrong sex, wrong color promoted to manager and then when I was training I was told to "train" the new guy. The new guy told me he was training to be manager! They didn't even have the balls to tell me I was being replaced with a black guy. A man that zero experience working as a manager!

Dre's avatar

The 9-5 grind always seemed depressing to me. It definitely isn’t for everyone. I’d rather work non stop with my passion and make less money. Great insight!!

sofia falck's avatar

I get that. i’m so glad you have a passion that drives you! thank you so much <3